Archive for the ‘Traditions’ Category

History of the Wedding Garter Toss

Tuesday, October 5th, 2010

With roots in the 14th century, tossing the garter is one of the oldest wedding traditions. Even back then, the reason was a little racy!

Members of the bridal party would enter the room after consummation of a marriage to confirm the couple had spent the evening together. After verifying the act took place, and believing the bride’s garments to bring good luck, they would take a souvenir from the bedchamber, often choosing the garter the bride had worn to hold her stockings up.

Garters from Bridal Styles bridal accessory boutique, New York

Bridal garter from Bridal Styles bridal accessory boutique, New York

As time passed, people became more enlightened (and shy about running into someone’s bedroom after their wedding night), and the tradition evolved into an event that took place during the wedding reception.  Modern brides celebrate this fun wedding tradition by wearing a beautiful garter, but may or may not toss it during their reception, instead holding on to it as a cherished keepsake.

Alena wearing her garter from Bridal Styles bridal accessory boutique, New York

Lovely Bridal Styles real bride Alena modeling her modern garter

Brides-to-be who want to have their cake and eat it too can choose garters designed just for that purpose, with one pretty garter to keep and pass on and another smaller one used for tossing.

Garters from Bridal Styles bridal accessory boutique, New York

Keepsake garter and tossing garter from Bridal Styles bridal accessory boutique, New York

To find the garter that fits your bridal style, visit us at Bridal Styles, our New York bridal accessory boutique!

Veiled in Tradition

Wednesday, September 22nd, 2010

We all know that veils are to weddings like icing is to cake, but have you ever wondered where the tradition originated? All of us at Bridal Styles did! After all, our New York boutique is all about bridal accessories – including veiling.

Victorian Bride

Brides have been wearing veils for centuries. In fact, since biblical times! In the story of Rebekah and Issac, Rebekah wore a veil as she married him, revealing her face after the ceremony to indicate their joining as a couple. Fast forward to the Roman Empire, and women on the way to being wed wore brightly colored veils to ward off evil spirits.

Bridal Styles bride Arbionda and her lovely two tier veil

Bridal Styles Boutique real bride Arbionda in her delicate two tier veil

It wasn’t until the Crusades that veils found their way to Europe. During that time, a bride’s marriage was often arranged through the father, and the couple often didn’t meet until their wedding day. A medieval bride would wear a veil that concealed her face, not to be revealed until after the ceremony!

Bridal Styles bride Michelle and her gorgeous custom lace cathedral veil

Bridal Styles Boutique real bride Michelle in her gorgeous custom lace cathedral veil

Throughout its interpretations and uses across cultures, the veil has symbolized purity and, upon lifting from her face, that the couple are spiritually and physically joined. While this sometimes implied the transference of the bride as property, in Rebekah’s case, by wearing a veil she was indicating she would remain her own person even after marriage.

Bridal Styles bride Tonia in her modern pouf and French net blusher

Bridal Styles Boutique real bride Tonia in her dramatic French net veil and blusherl

Today, veils are an enduring symbol of marriage. Modern brides can express themselves with everything from a stylish, vintage-inspired cage veil to a dramatic cathedral length veil trimmed in hand cut lace.

To find the perfect veil for your style and carry on an ancient tradition, visit us in our Brooklyn, New York bridal accessory boutique!

A Fresh Take On Something Blue

Tuesday, August 31st, 2010

Almost every bride-to-be has heard the adage “something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue.” What they might not realize is that this tradition was originally a Victorian custom for “good luck.”

Victorian Wedding via Victoria Magazine

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Victorians ascribed meaning to all kinds of things – flowers, gifts, dances. The significance of blue and weddings, however, is one that goes much further back in history. In ancient times and across cultures, the color blue has been associated with faithfulness, loyalty, love, and modesty, traits which, during the time, a bride-to-be wished to exude on her wedding day. In fact, before the Victorian era, it was not uncommon for wedding dresses to be blue.

Today, brides embrace the tradition, making it their own by incorporating the classic “good luck” wedding color in some traditional and some unexpected ways!

A Fresh Take on Something Blue

Images clockwise from upper left: Essie nail polish, garter (available at Bridal Styles Boutique, New York), ring bearer pillow (available at Bridal Styles Boutique, New York), Blue Tulle, Christian Louboutin shoes

For your something blue, visit us at out New York bridal accessory boutique!